In my earlier Table For One post, I discussed not waiting around for someone to invite us out. Widowhood doesn’t mean having to hide out until you have someone to go out with. That has hangry written all over it. I just completed our big bucket list trip in Europe and encountered a whole new table for one scenario that I couldn’t wait to share with you. Mostly because it’s so bad it’s comical.
There are many things Europe does better than we do, but taking care of solo diners isn’t one of them. Or at least not solo female travelers who like to venture off the beaten path. I don’t mind dining at the bar, but sometimes a W just wants to enjoy a lovely meal at an actual table. After spending three weeks across the pond, I was horrified and then amused at what would be offered. It almost became a game to see how bad it could get. My favorites include:
- The hideous corner table where I was made to face the freaking corner like a naughty five year old.
- The “it’s just you?” when asking for a table, followed by the big sigh.
- The quick dragging away of the offensive “extra” chair.
- Being ignored as soon as my food was delivered. DO NOT MAKE EYE CONTACT must be part of the training manual.
Sadly, one downside of traveling solo means there was no one to capture the many WTF faces I tried very hard to control.
There were some notable exceptions to the rule, my favorite being Hams Hame Pub and Grill just outside of St. Andrews Old Course. This lovely pub was clean and spacious and the staff was lovely. It was all “Madam” this and “Madam” that. Madam could sit anywhere she damn well wanted and received lots of smiles and attention by the staff. Madam left feeling like a princess and not an outcast to be hidden away. Madam likey. Check out Hams Hame if you are ever in St. Andrews. Excellent food, great whisky options and a beautiful staff with amazing service.
So, my Dear W’s, keep trying until you find a place you like that makes you feel like Madam and not an embarrassment. And remember-nobody puts baby in the corner. Not even in Europe.
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